03 February 2010 | Uncategorized | Mike Breslin
It turns out, you can. This article gives several cases of a job seeker having no chance at a job because of his reputation.
I can think of several trite statements with which I can follow up:
You are what you do.
You only get one reputation. Take care of it.
You never know who is watching.
Trite they may be, but great advice they are (and for some reason, typing like Yoda am I).
“You are what you do.” Certainly we all have a vision of ourselves in our mind. And perhaps some days our actions do not match who we each believe we really are. Alas, it is our actions that define us because that’s what other people see. Other people define your reputation. You can do things to influence for good, ill or other. But it is the judgment of others that will costruct your reputation.
Try this analaogy: You are a saint and do nothing but nice things but only when no one can see you. When folks see you, you’re a jerk and mean and rude. All those good things (as they relate to your reputation) mean nothing. A variation on, “If a tree falls in the forest and there is no one there to hear it, does it make a sound?”
“You only get one reputation. Take care of it.” Once the stink is on you, it takes a long time to wash it off. ‘Washing’ can mean no job prospects, having to start over somewhere were no one has heard of you, no promotions, etc. A good reputation, like any solid job searching tool, will open doors for you that might otherwise remain closed. Think of your reputation as a silent agent working on your behalf. If you build a great rep, you will have a powerful agent to which people will pay attention.
“You never know who is watching.” One of my favorites. No one can garauntee that any action will ever remain a secret forever (ask any politician or athlete). Someone always knows the dirt about you. So when you have a choice between foolishness and wisdom, think about your reputation. Remember that, despite the rationalizations in your mind, you really are what you do.
A final story. Joe Dimaggio was one of the great baseball players of all time. He always tried his hardest whether the Yankees were winning or losing, whether he was healthy or injured. when asked why he responded with one of the great quotes of all time:
“There is always some kid who may be seeing me for the first time. I owe him my best.”
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